Traditions, Celebrations and More
South Indian Telugu weddings has a number of rituals and customs and each is symbolic of beautiful and noble sentiments. As one enters the wedding venue of a South Indian wedding, one can notice full-grown plantain trees tied to the gateposts, overhead festoons of mango leaves and coconut petals, notes of the Nadaswaram, the South Indian Shehnai, Rangoli designs at the doorsteps and many more replicates the south India’s essence
Festivities are lined up as the wedding day approaches with different rituals and ceremonies taking place at Bride and Groom’s residence.
The celebrations starts off with a ritual called Pasupu Kottadam; after which
the wedding festivities continue with printing wedding cards, apparel
shopping etc. Depending on the family traditions ritual of Pellikuturu
Cheyyadam (Bride Ceremony) and Pellikoduku Cheyyadam (Groom Ceremony) is
performed by applying turmeric and mangalsnan. Post the bride and groom
ceremony, the bride and the groom are not allowed to go out until the
wedding is completed.
Haldi ceremony is followed by Mehendi ceremony, in which the bride will be applied with beautiful designs of henna. Her family and friends will be excited to take part in this ceremony to apply designs of henna to their hands and feet.
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On the day of
wedding, ritual of Snaatakam takes place at the groom’s residence before the
wedding muhurtham. As a part of this custom, the groom is asked to wear a
silver thread on his body. The ritual is conducted a few hours before to the
wedding. |
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Before the wedding ceremony, bride does the Goddess Gauripuja at her residence with all her family members before arriving at the mandap. |
The bride and groom
are not yet allowed to see each other, so a cloth barrier is used to separate
them.
Kanyadanam ritual in which the bride’s father
places her hand into the groom’s and says “I believe you as an incarnation of
Lord Vishnu and my daughter to be Goddess Lakshmi, here by I am giving you her
to be your wife hereafter” .
Jeelakara Bellam ceremony is one in which the bride and groom with the clock striking the muhurtham (holy time fixed for the wedding) follow the Vedic mantras by the pandit, and place dough made of jaggery and cumin seeds onto their prospective partner’s head.
This is followed by Mangalya Dhahrana in which a necklace with mangalyam (two golden pendants) which symbolizes commitment, sacredness and safety offered by groom to bride by tying the nuptial knot around bride’s neck.
After this Saptapadi is performed in which the bride and the groom take the seven vows and seven pheras in presence of Agni (Fire)
Sthalipakam is a ritual in which the bride’s maternal uncle adorns the feet of bride with silver toe rings, which signifies the marriage will not perturbed by any disturbances and troubles.
Talambralu is the fun part in which bride and groom shower turmeric rice and flower petals on their partner’s head, as if there is a competition. After talambralu a game in which their wedding Ring of the groom and Silver toe ring of the bride are placed in a metal pot (Large metal vessel with a narrow neck) and the bride and the groom compete with each other to find the Gold ring in a best of three game.They say the one who wins most number of times is said to be dominating one in the marriage.
Followed
by Arundhati darshan, the pandit take the bride and groom outdoors and shows
them the (direction) double stars of Vashista and Arundhati, who as per the
hindu mythology are the epitome of how an ideal couple should be. Nakshatra Darshan is symbolic of marital
fulfilment and loyalty.
The wedding ceremony comes to the end with a
ritual known as Appaginthalu (send off) in which the bride’s father gives her
hand to her in laws and says she was my pride as a daughter hereafter she is
your daughter, plea them to take care of her and maintain her dignity.
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Colour Colour… Which Colour Do You Want
Setting the vibe, colour themes need a lot of attention, while your big day is getting planned. It can set off the right mood, if the ambience calls for fun or classic. While, it can be difficult to pick out your favourite wedding colour schemes, there are so many different choices to pick from, yet it’s hard to pick just the right one. Whether you’re looking for trendy or classic, chic or crazy, loud or muted, fun or subtle, there is something on this list, for all of you. You can choose of these colour themes, for your wedding or go by it, for any of the ceremonies, before and after.
PINK AND GOLD
Pink and Gold shades are one of the most perfect wedding colour schemes for an early summer wedding. It’s a feminine, yet not an overtly girly combination. This colour combination does justice specially, when paired with a rustic wedding theme. This combination can work both ways, where shade of pink is the prominent colour and also with gold ruling the theme, either ways, the combination of the two is absolutely gorgeous.
NAVY BLUE AND BLUSH
Sophisticated and regal, Navy Blue can blend it with anything and everything and so has quickly made its way up into the wedding circuit. It’s a perfect neutralizer, and can be an ideal fusion base with any colour. To flaunt a subtle yet elegant statement, Navy blue with blush is a combination you can consider while you make up your mind on the wedding theme.
Aqua and Magenta
An interesting and class apart wedding colour combination is Aqua and Magenta. It’s a rare combination, but if done right then it can set you off with the right classy ambience. Plus, there are so many different combinations of aqua and magenta to pick from that the options are seemingly endless.
Gray and Powder Blue
While gray might seem as an overtly strange route to choose a wedding theme of, it can be a colour combination you could go for, when planning a muted wedding. It might or might not be your choice, considering Indian weddings are usually lavish and loud. But, it can be a theme you could choose for one of your wedding ceremonies, just to keep it different and beautiful.
PEACOCK GREEN AND YELLOW
It’s the perfect twist if you’re looking to switch things up but also keep with classic tradition.This combination is shades of pure royalty and when combined with yellow, is a sure class statement for your wedding. This colour combination is eye catchy and looks beautiful in pictures too, so go ahead with this if you really want your wedding album o be all bright, bold and beautiful.
ORANGE AND PINK
Classic Indian colours, Orange when blended with shades of pink can simply do wonders for your wedding. This classic combination is a page from our Indian weddings, where the shades simply brighten up the celebration and add a spark to the day. This colour is usually preferred by many as it complements the usual shades of wedding attires and can be varied in different shades and combinations of pink and orange.
WHITE AND GOLD
Classy all the way! White and gold is a combination that you just can’t let go. People who do not like experimenting with too much always can speak a lot, with just these two royal colours. It’s simple, not too risky and is easy on the eyes, so you could then play around with your choice of flowers.
Going all out on colours can be risky, so make sure you have worked your way out on colour schemes. Try setting a table with your preferred choice of colour combination just to get the sense of the colours for your perfect day. Think, Visualize and decide….coz no matter what the day is special and so it should surely feel and look like one too.
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With a beautiful wedding comes the time to relax and what better than unwinding in some of the most luxurious honeymoon hotels the world. So, here we offer you a peek-a boo to some of the best that the world has to offer to you. Breathe in to some exquisite places to celebrate your nuptials in and revel in some pure bliss.
SAN PIETRO DI POSITANO, ITALY
Making a spectacular scene, the coasts and the rocks make Positano in Italy, a place of dreams. It’s one of those destinations that you can’t even begin to imagine exists. It’s one of the most exclusive, and probably one of the most exotic honeymoon hotels you can ever come across. A veritable architectural masterpiece, combining luxury with technical prowess, San Pietro di Positano is sculpted into the cliffs overlooking the sea that will definitely make you feel like you’re in heaven.
THE SARANN, THAILAND
A sublime blend of luxury and nature, The Sarann is a small intimate resort imparting unique experiences that linger. With infinity pools, gorgeous architecture, luscious greenery and beaches and skies so blue, you could swear to feel connected and can’t go wrong.
SANTORINI KASTELLI RESORT, GREECE
At the foot of the hill of the Ancient Thira, this five star property of Santorini Kastelli Resort is set exquisitely and is one of the most stunning and gorgeous islands in the world, if you’ve always wanted to go to Greece, this place might be it for you. Encapsulating the beach island experience, for an unforgettable stay of fun, relaxation and comfort, it surely makes for a stunning honeymoon destination!
PONTA DOS GANCHOS, BRAZIL
Can your honeymoon get any better than heading to one of the most beautiful honeymoon hotels on the planet? A private paradise through the stretch of Southern Brazil where sunset sparkles with a relaxed rainforest retreat to revel in. Spa, beaches and more, we just hope you could recoup of this lovely honeymoon once back coz it’s definitely going to have you spellbound.
SHANGRI-LA HOTEL PARIS, PARIS
Luxury Calling? Paris is the place you have to head for a glamourous honeymoon stay that is world class. Once here, you just can’t help but feel like royalty and enjoy the pampering and love. Located at the heart of the city, the elegant place gives you a view of the Eiffel tower that will simply leave you transfixed in romance.
PROTEA HOTEL KRUGER GATE, SOUTH AFRICA
On the banks of the Sabie river is this superior lodge style hotel that offers a luxurious getaway, to savour on the impression of being in a tree house. Located close to the Kruger National park, the hotel will let you enjoy some 1st hand experience of wildlife. So if you have some adventures in mind, and wildlife is something you both like, you now know where to head.
TAJ LAKE PALACE, INDIA
Royal abode, this luxurious hotel speaks elegance and your honeymoon just could not get grander than this. Glorious dining, stunning landscapes, majestic architecture, and the chance to immerse yourself in one of the richest cultures on the planet. Heaven residing just at our home country, is surely an experience not to miss!
DAYDREAM ISLAND RESORT & SPA, AUSTRALIA
The name says it all! One of the most gorgeous honeymoon hotels in the world, this resort situated on a private sand beach, is surely one of the prettiest island countries topping the list. When at this place you realise how beautiful watching the sunset can be with an ocean view mesmerizing you at all times.
BAROS, MALDIVES
To relish on some authentic essence of Maldives, Baros is the place one should pack their bags to. To discover the islands while walking the joyful path with one another is a lifetime experience which is adventurous and simply beautiful. So, plan your trip here and be sure that the splendid blue beaches on the private island with great food and privacy, would mean so much to you.
BELMOND HOTEL CIPRIANI, VENICE
Touching your senses of glory, romance and luxury, Belmond hotel Cipriani Venice is the royal box you should rejoice in. On the tip of Giudecca Island, this luxury hotel commands unrivalled views of the lagoon and Doge’s Palace with an exquisite interiors that are both classic and innovative.
Now with so much of luxurious choices to choose from all you need to do is pack up and get ready for the takeoff. So for those who are getting tied into the matrimonial knot, we wish you all a Happy Wedding and a Bon Voyage!
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Caution : Planners at Work
Just as the wedding bells ring, its time you start planning right from the first day and while the ‘To do list’ is endless, the best way to get it all sorted is hire a wedding planner. Wedding is most definitely a special day where one would bind in memories till eternity and making it the best day is the only thing you should settle with. While your big day has to have detailing of your likes, one should avoid planning it all on their own coz you don’t want to fall short of being the most beautiful bride and definitely do not want to turn a bridezilla. Here are some quick pointers to consider hiring a wedding Planner.
THEY KNOW PEOPLE
They have been there and know it all. A good wedding planner will definitely have a list of vendors that they can choose from for your big day. They would have their skills and knowledge in the right place about providing apt music, flowers, photographers and food as they would by now have their set of frequent vendors, to get you’re the right service at the right price.
KEEPS STRESS TO A MINIMUM
It is your big day and you don’t want unwanted stress and last minute things to pop up and hold you down. For all the goodness, hiring a wedding planner to take care of everything, so you find your time to relax and let them take on the burden of planning to the very last detail. (Not on pockets for sure). You should make sure to hire an experienced planner to take over so you can do what you are meant to do on your wedding day and that is to sit back, relax and enjoy.
UNFORESEEN CIRCUMSTANCES
Wedding is all about long planning and last minute changes, so you need to be prepared for things you least expected as it is bound to have things you didn’t foresee, transpire with no heads up. A wedding planner would have the experience to balance it out and would be better equipped to cope with unexpected crises.
PREVENTS ARGUMENTS
Wedding and planning can have you worked up and can easily turn you from the lovely bride to bridezilla. Skipping the arguments between you and your partner the lovely wedding planners can save you so much love and time. Cutting down the argument lane, they make your life that much more easier and beautiful.
ATTENTION TO DETAILS
As a wedding planner, they are immune to skipping details and would make sure to get into every minutest detail of the special day. Their job is to make your dreams come true and as their profession, they would not leave any stone unturned to make it happen for you.
BRINGS YOUR VISION TO LIFE
Whether you want to have a Cinderella theme, a party like beach theme or a traditional marriage, you name it and they will have it set up for you. As the bride or groom, you are sure to have many other commitments to fulfil, so all you would need to do with a wedding planner is dream it, say it and love it.
LET YOUR HAIR LOOSE
When all your planning burden is off your head, its time you pamper yourself and get ready to look your best for your wedding. It is a special day indeed and is worth cherishing, so get your planning sorted and enjoy and let loose on your big day. Do enjoyable things with your bridesmaids, decide on your hair and makeup, and just enjoy being single for the last few days!
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With Love ..........
Hitched and yet waiting for your D-Day? Well just as much as you would want to enjoy your honeymoon phase, the courtship time is just as beautiful and you should surely make the most of it. Now when you ask out your partner for a date during this time, you need to be extremely thoughtful to make it nothing less than special.
This time around, we have for you some of the awesome date ideas that is worth going for! They are all different, all unique and will keep you active. So, take a look below and see what dates you should plan next!
Beach Date
Beach most definitely is hands down, the most romantic and beautiful date location. It's fun, it'll keep you active and it's a great way to really cool off when it's hot! Whether you hit up a lake beach or the ocean, pack a picnic and go! If you're not a water bug, that's okay; you can stay on the sand, watch the sunset and talk to each other under the beautiful colours of the horizon.
Carnival Date
The summer is usually when all the best carnivals start to come around and what better date than a carnival date? You can ride all of the rides, challenge each other to all of the games and win cute stuffed animals! It's the ideal date and often times, there is live music to listen to! So, put on some comfortable shoes, a cute outfit and hit the carnival!
Movie or Theatre
A romantic movie or theatre play can do you so much good. Picking the right kind of movie with your partner is the trick you should not go wrong in. If you both are fun, some laughs over a comedy flick is as much fun. Dramatics and horror is not something we would suggest for your initial phase, after all who wants to be left disturbed and scared, so let’s all leave on a smiling happy note.
Park Tour
If you are looking for something really fun and something economical, why not tour a historical park or walk around a lake? This type of date can be fantastic for a first or second date, because it really lets you have a chance to talk to your date and get to know them!